find the right attitude

hi, i want to write about the right attitude..first, in 'Eat Mangoes naked," the author SARK suggest finding little pockets of pleasure in even the saddest and worst situation in your life.David Viscott says: 'First, be willing to accept that you are not perfect and that you make mistakes. Shrug them off, and get on with the rest of your life without allowing them to influence your feelings of self-confidence. second, be calmly and confidently observant of the things that happen in your life and realize that making a mistake does not mean that you are a mistake.in moment of difficulty, loss or failure allow yourself sometime to grieve. then shift your focus to what is positive about a situation. an optimist always believes that something good comes out of every bad experiences.motivational speaker Anthony Pangilinan says,when in a rut, take one step back and two steps forward take to access the situation rework your strategy if necessary, then proceed with life..